13 Essential Dos and Don’ts for Travelling to France: A guide to French etiquette

Think of learning basic French phrases as your golden ticket to unlocking smiles and warm welcomes. Saying "Bonjour" (hello), "Merci" (thank you), or even "Je suis désolé(e)" (I’m sorry) shows you’re making an effort to embrace the culture, and locals will appreciate it. Whether you’re asking for directions or chatting with a shopkeeper, even a little French will make you feel less like a tourist and more like a local en formation (local in training). 

In France, life tends to move to a quieter soundtrack—think Amélie. Public spaces like the metro, restaurants, and museums are perfect for enjoying calm conversation and soaking in the unique atmosphere. Speaking at a moderate level helps everyone feel more connected to the moment and appreciate the beauty around them. After all, part of travel is blending in and experiencing life like a local!  

In France, coffee isn’t just a drink—it’s a moment to pause, connect, and savor life. Forget the Starbucks rush; here, coffee culture invites you to slow down and stay awhile. Picture yourself seated at a cozy café, chatting with friends, the aroma of freshly brewed espresso filling the air. 

When it’s time to move on, embrace the art of flâner—a leisurely stroll with no particular destination. There’s even a French phrase, “Je voudrais flâner avec toi,” which means, “I’d like to stroll with you.” It’s not just about walking; it’s about soaking in the beauty of your surroundings, one step at a time. Romanticize your adventure—every traveller deserves a main character moment. Why not make yours happen in France? 

A simple "Bonjour" can open doors—literally and figuratively. Whether you’re walking into a boutique or ordering at a café, greeting staff with a smile shows respect and creates positive vibes. Don’t forget to say "Au revoir" when you leave, either; it’s a small gesture that goes a long way.  

Unlike back home, tipping in France isn’t about percentages—it’s about a polite nod to good service. Most restaurants already include a service charge on the bill (look for “Service Compris”), so leaving an extra euro or two is just a way to say thanks as part of French dining etiquette. For students on a budget, this custom means more room to splurge on pastries without breaking the bank.  

Dining in France isn’t just about the food—it’s about the experience. Meals are leisurely affairs, often spanning multiple courses and stretching into the evening. When it’s time to leave, avoid waving your server down. Instead, make eye contact and politely say, “L’addition, s’il vous plaît” (the cheque, please). Savor the unhurried rhythm of dining like a local.  

Channel your inner Gossip Girl flair without the suitcase drama! Overpacking may sound tempting, but hauling heavy bags up Metro stairs and across cobblestone streets gets old fast.

Instead, focus on layering basics that mix and match easily, so you’re ready for everything from chilly evenings by the Seine to sunny strolls in Montmartre. And while heels may look chic on-screen, trust us—your feet will thank you for sticking to cute sneakers or comfy flats. After all, Paris is made for walking, not wobbling! 

Queueing in France is a mix of Emily in Paris charm and Survivor strategy. Be polite—no cutting or pushing—but don’t be afraid to hold your ground if someone tries to sneak ahead. Whether you’re waiting for a croissant or tickets to the Louvre, think Taylor Swift in the ‘Eras’ line—polite but prepared. 

While Paris is modern, its markets and charming corner shops still love their euros. Always carry a bit of cash for those fresh baguettes, antique finds, or a quick espresso at a tiny café. It’s a practical way to ensure nothing stands between you and a picture-perfect souvenir or snack. 

The Eiffel Tower, Montmartre, and bustling markets are magical—and pickpockets know it too. Keep your phone, wallet, and other treasures in a secure, zippered bag close to your body. Anti-theft bags are worth it, giving you peace of mind so you can focus on snapping photos, not watching your back. 

French markets are brimming with colourful displays, and it’s natural to want to explore! Vendors often prefer to select the produce for you, so if you’re curious about something, just ask. A friendly "Puis-je toucher?" (May I touch?) shows interest and respect—and might even spark a warm exchange with the stall owner.  

From buttery croissants to savory crêpes, French food is a love letter to your taste buds. Channel your inner Ratatouille—yes, the adorable rat chef—and dive into dishes like escargot, coq au vin, or even a perfectly baked baguette. Not sure what to order? Ask your server for recommendations and let your taste buds take the lead. After all, like Remy says, "Anyone can cook," but only in France can you eat like this!